There’s nothing in your life God can’t work with and through. There’s nothing in your past he can’t use, and nothing in your future he will be shocked by. He knows the end from the beginning, and while you are given free choice in your life, you can’t screw this thing up beyond God’s repair. There’s no mess he can’t make a message out of, and no pain he can’t create purpose in. There’s no curveball that can be thrown in your life that can’t be knocked out of the park with God’s power.

God is working in your circumstances to bring you fuller into his plan. He is working through your struggles to make you more like who you were created to be. He is working in every detail to guide you in living up to your potential.

And through it all, he will change you. That’s what God does, he works through seemingly ordinary events and struggles common to everyone, and he uses it all to change you. Change how you see yourself.

Yes, change your identity.

2 Corinthians 3:18 MSG “We are transfigured much like the Messiah, our lives gradually becoming brighter and more beautiful as God enters our lives and we become like him.”

Many of us are struggling our way through life because we have a case of mistaken identity. We’ve taken on the role of a character we were never intended to be. We’ve assumed the position of a wanderer not knowing the way, when we have a destiny deep within us. We’ve put on the clothes of a stressed worried soul, when through Christ we are clothed in righteousness and commanded not to fear. Mistaken identity.

Do you know who you are?
Do you understand the power dwelling within you?

In scripture we see several people who had taken on an identity of less than favorable circumstances, then God comes in and rocks their world. And it starts with a name change.

Sarai was a broken, barren old woman whose entire world was defined by her inability to have children. It had consumed her for decades. Her value and worth was wrapped up in this one thing. She was broken. Then God shows up.

But you see, God had always been there. He had always had a plan. He had made a way, but her entire life she couldn’t see the way. For years (I mean like 70 years) she waited for a baby until all hope was gone at the age of 90. And what happened?

First, God changed her identity. He changed her name from Sarai to Sarah. And with that, her whole world changed. Her husband who was named Abram was given the new name Abraham, meaning the father of many nations. And the father of many nations he became. 40 generations later, through this exact lineage came Jesus.

But first there was a broken woman who God gave a new name, and a new identity.

What if God wants to change your identity? He wants to change how you see yourself. What if you’ve had a case of mistaken identity and the reason why life hasn’t been working is because you’ve been playing your role as someone you were never created to be? Allow your mistaken identity to come face to face with Jesus and watch your world change!

The name Jacob means trickster. In the bible we read of a twin brother who was nothing but a trickster always stirring up trouble. Of course it was Jacob living up to his name. Then an encounter with God changed his name to Israel. This encounter caused his character to change and he was no longer driven by a selfish desire, God had taken over his life.

God, please come in and change any character trait within me that needs to change this year. Take over my life. Change me from my core and help my next step be in alignment with your plan. I recognize with this encounter, you will call me out of who I’ve been playing around in the shallows of life as, and call me into deep waters as who you always intended me to be. It won’t be easy and it might be scary, but I’m ready now.

I’ve told you the story before of waking up one day and deciding I no longer wanted to be Pam. I decided I would be Pamela. I started signing my name and introducing myself differently. Now, I am no longer Pam. You know me solely as Pamela. If you were to call me Pam, it would be weird. That’s not who I am. I am Pamela.

Much the same, you can change how you see yourself and it will take time and effort.

Again, 2 Corinthians 3:18 “We are transfigured much like the Messiah, our lives gradually becoming brighter and more beautiful as God enters our lives and we become like him.”

You no longer have to be the professional worrier. You understand worry is the meditation of crap, right? Why would you choose to meditate on crap? STOP THAT! That’s not who you were created to be. Take on a new identity. The family worrier stresses everyone out and helps no one. No one wants to pull up a seat next to the designated worrier of the family. If you feel like they’re avoiding you, they are!

Ask God to give you a new identity. The identity of a prayer warrior filled with faith. The identity of a good seeker and beauty finder. The identity of a lemonade maker and happiness dweller.

You no longer have to be the procrastinator. You no longer have to be the quitter. You no longer have to be the habitually sleepy or grouchy one. You no longer have to be the one always running late. You no longer have to be the cynical one, the one who always sits it out, or the one who never knows what the heck to do. You don’t have to be any of these things for another day.


Because your creator is having an encounter with you right here today! And an encounter with your creator can change everything! You don’t have to walk away the same. Seek God in changing how you see yourself and how you present yourself to the world.

You may have been presenting yourself to the world as the stressed overwhelmed woman with too much on her plate, but God created a grounded, centered, focused and intentional woman within you. Let her run the show today! And when she starts running the show, that’s how you begin seeing yourself.

With a little practice living as who you were created to be, instead of some lesser-than version you’ve assumed over the years, your value, your worth, and your identity will align with God’s original design. Then when someone reminds you of who you used to be, it will literally feel awkward. Why would you call me Pam, I’m Pamela. I changed who I am.

Why would you call me a worrier, I changed who I am.
Why would you expect me to be late, I changed who I am.
Why would you count me out, I’m no longer a quitter, I changed who I am.
You don’t have to avoid me, I’m not the catty woman I used to be, I changed who I am.
You can now count on me, I can now count on me … I changed who I am.


An encounter with my Creator.

I was once walking around with a mistaken identity, now I’m walking around knowing who I was created to be, and everyday I’m living a little more like her!

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